In memory of

Joyce

Manalo

Juan

March 19, 1965 — July 17, 2023

Joyce wanted to make polvoron. She had never made the Filipino treat before but she had this little burst of energy the day after receiving her third chemotherapy treatment and wanted to do something creative. She was always doing something creative.

“I need a polvoron molder,” she told her husband Allan, “They should have one at Seafood City.” He hopped in their car along with his mom and zoomed through the fog of Daly City. They sent pictures to her of the tin molder and she gave a thumbs up. When Allan got home, he placed the tin molder next to a bag of flour, powdered milk, and pinipig, ingredients Joyce had ordered a week before. By the next day, her energy dissipated and she just wanted to lay on the couch. Weeks later, Allan shelved the polvoron ingredients along with the tin molder. She never got to make her polvoron.

Joyce passed away peacefully on Monday, July 17, 2023 at the home she created and under the care of Allan and brother Boni, four months after experiencing a stroke, seven months after being diagnosed with Stage 4 ovarian cancer, and almost 22 weeks since she attempted to make her polvaron. She was a fighter until the end.

For decades, Joyce worked in the Filipin@ community, especially in the SOMA Pilipinas Filipino Cultural Heritage District of San Francisco. From leading the theater group Teatro ng Tanan and Kearny Street Workshop to helming Bindlestiff Studio with Allan, supporting countless shows and artists, from co-creating KSW’s Celebrate Your Body fashion show to her favorite project of all, producing the Tagalog festival of plays from 2019-2022. Her heart's work and her spirit will have a lasting impact on the San Francisco Filipin@ American community she loved.

Joyce was born and raised in Mandaluyong, Metro Manila to Avelino Juan and Librada Dimalanta. She was the youngest of three brothers and an eldest sister. Her father’s pet name for her was “Chokit”, her pronunciation of the word chocolate as a little girl. Her mom called her “pretty rosebud”. Sadly, her father died in 1974 at the age of 47. That same year, Joyce, along with her mother and brother Boni migrated to Canada upon the petition of her eldest sister Zenny.

While in Manila she attended St. Paul College Elementary School in Pasig and continued at Central Spryfield Elementary School in Halifax. Later, Joyce and her mother returned to Manila where she attended high school at St. Paul College, New Manila in Quezon City. Upon completing her high school, they both returned to Canada where they stayed until Joyce returned again to Manila in 1994 to join her brother Boni who resettled in the Philippines a year earlier.

In January 1995, Joyce met her soon-to-be life partner, Allan S. Manalo during his first visit to the Philippines. Allan, a California-born Filipino and was introduced to Joyce at the Blue Cafe, a gay bar in Malate where many of Manila’s theater artists hung out. At their first meeting, Joyce was not at all interested in Allan, politely shaking his hand like it was a wet noodle. With the help of Melvin Lee, a mutual friend, Joyce was invited to attend a pre-Valentine party Melvin hosted called “The Lonely Hearts Club”. At the party, Joyce gave Allan another chance and the two hit it off immediately. After a whirlwind romance of several dates in the span of a week, Allan left for San Francisco with the promise of seeing Joyce again.

Joyce and Allan on the day Allan goes back to San Francisco, FEBRUARY 1995.

Manila, February 1995. Joyce says goodbye to Allan as he returns to San Francisco. Allan promises Joyce that they will be together again soon.

They both kept in touch via letters and phone calls with Allan racking up a huge phone bill. He asked Joyce to join him in San Francisco and purchased a one-way ticket with the rest of his savings. She arrived in April to a proposal and engagement ring at the Golden Gate Bridge. On June 18, 1995, at 2 am, after Allan’s standup comedy gig in Las Vegas, they married at City Hall on the old strip by Las Vegas’ Justice of the Peace. (They couldn’t find an Elvis chapel that was open.)

For the next year, Joyce accompanied Allan on the road performing in a college tour of a game show called Blizzard of Bucks. Joyce took on the role of “Vanna Brown” the gorgeous game show host assistant. The couple traveled through 43 states performing in more than 400 colleges, universities, and a couple of shopping malls. This extended honeymoon forged their dynamic working relationship in the years to come.

In 1996, Joyce and Allan settle back in San Francisco where Allan revived his comedy troupe, tongue in A mood. They both also found jobs slinging coffee at a nearby cafe. By 1997, tongue in A mood gained popularity and needed a venue to perform. While attending a performance of Babae by young Pinay theater artist Lorna Aquino-Chui at the suggestion of Joyce's buddy Ogie Gonzales, they found the venue they’d been looking for — a small black box theater in the South-of-Market Area called Bindlestiff Studio. Allan and his comedy group were booked for a show that September with Joyce handling the logistics and publicity. By Spring 1998, Joyce and Allan took over the operations of Bindlestiff Studio and converted the venue into “an epicenter of Filipino American Performing Arts”, the only one of its kind in the entire country and still in operation today.

San Francisco. December 2019. Joyce and Allan celebrate the 30th anniversary of Bindlestiff Studio, a small black box theater they both shared along with hundreds of incredibly talented artists.

Joyce is survived by Allan, her husband of 28 years, along with her brother Boni and his wife Elnora, her brother Gerry and his wife Malu, her niece Abigail, her nephew Mikey, her brother Roberto and his wife Wena, her niece Janice, her brother-in-law, Manuel Fermin and her niece Ayenne and nephew Jose aka “Boogs”.

Joyce will be deeply missed and forever remembered and celebrated for her integral role in shaping and strengthening Filipin@ arts and culture in San Francisco and beyond. Her warm embrace and her ability to make others around her shine will be missed at the entrance of Bindlestiff Studio and the Bayanihan Community Center, along with her cool, charming, no-bullshit humor and loving personality.

We love you, Joyce!

Kung tayo'y matanda na
Sana'y di tayo magbago
At kailan ma'y, nasaan ma'y
Ito ang pangarap ko
Makuha mo pa kayang
Ako'y hagkan at yakapin ooh
Hanggang sa pagtanda natin
Nagtatanong lang sa 'yo
Ako pa kaya'y ibigin mo
Kung maputi na ang buhok ko
Pagdating ng araw
Ang 'yong buhok
Ay puputi na rin
Sabay tayong mangangarap
Sa nakaraan natin
Ang nakalipas ay ibabalik natin ooh
Ipapaalala ko sa 'yo
Ang aking pangako
Na ang pag-ibig ko'y laging sa 'yo
Kahit maputi na ang buhok ko
Nana nana nana nanana
Ang nakalipas ay ibabalik natin ooh
Ipapaalala ko sa 'yo
Ang aking pangako
Na ang pag-ibig ko'y laging sa 'yo
Kahit maputi na ang buhok ko